Relationship - Connecting People

Relationships are the keys to being successful and living life to the fullest. When you work on relationships, the rest will follow. It has deep emotional meaning and brings up feelings and memories of peoples who greatly touched in our life. What matters most in life to you? money, time, friends, family? All of those topics have one common denominator, relationships!
         Relationships are all about listening!
  L - lock them in the eye.
  I - invest in people. Accept them for who they are.
  S - stop doing whatever else you are doing and focus on the other person as you are with them.
  T - think about that they are saying, not about how you are going to respond.
  E - empathize with them. how would you feel? how do you want to be treated?
  N - notice body language, yours and theirs.
          Human beings are social creatures; in our day to day lives we are constantly meeting and interacting with peoples, and creating relationships with them. Fathers, mother, sibling, friend, lover, co-worker, subordinate - these are just few examples of relationships which are common to all peoples across the globe. Relationships are what our lives are made of, and happy relationships make for a happy and satisfied life. Human beings have an inherent need to develop meaningful relationships. We all want to share our goals, ideas, joys, sorrows,desires, affections and experiences with someone else.
          There are many types of relationships. Relationship affects our lives in many different ways every day.

ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP

         Romantic relationships are the type that people most often think of when they think about relationships. Boyfriends, girlfriends and spouse make up the many types of romantic relationships. These relationship involve lots of hormones and emotions and can often end badly if the relationship does not work out. They can be very stressful as one person tries to please the other but they can be very fulfilling as people are filled with love for each other. A romantic relationship can make you feel very complete.

FRIENDLY RELATIONSHIP

     Friendly relationships may include those between our friends, peers, fellows, workers, and other acquaintances.  These relationships are a very important aspects of your life even if you do not realize it. The company you keep say something about you and the people you are around everyday have an impact on the type of person you are and how you feel about them. These  can be very important relationships. Some people depend on these friendly relationships more than others but we are all affected by them in some way.

FAMILY RELATIONSHIP

   Family relationship are those that involves people related to you. This can be the people who live in your household and your immediately family and also your distant relatives. There are bonds between a mother and her children, between a father and children and between siblings. These family relationship can also have a big impact on who you are as a person.     

Need Of Relationship

          Relationship are important to everyone. Everyone is connected, very mush like the saying " no man is an island."
          All kinds of relationships are perceived to require extra effort to maintain. However a relationship can also be something that can provide security, be long lasting, and withstand trials.
          Building an effective and lasting relationship is a necessity for several reasons. In a group or organization, the well being of the people depends on how efficient that particular group or organization works. The group or organization is also dependent on how the members work well with management.
          Effective and efficient relationships require open expression of their feelings and positions on all matters pertinent on the relationship. It is not good practice to just assume that the other party understands your needs.
          An ineffective group or organization is a source of frustration for an individuals. Other group or organizations ask so much from the members; that sometimes the member do not have life outside the walls of the area where they work. These members sacrifice other aspects of their lives just to meet deadlines. This scenario presents a strain in relationship that can lead to a breakdown.
          Society is defined as a web of associations. These relationships requires all parties to work and contribute in order to achieve a common goal. The presence of cooperation and respect within a group or across organization can make the society work better.
          The effort to understand the other party's concern and position constitutes an effective and efficient relationship.
         Our relationship and life experiences are a reflection of our inner world. How we see the world and interpret the action of others depends on our relationship with our self.
          Most relationships are very exciting in the beginning but if you been in your current relationship for a while you may have already noticed that the initial excitement you had is starting to subside and you and your partner may be settling into a dull routine. As a relationship progresses one or both partners may be guilty of setting into complacency and may not strive to keep the element of excitement in their relationship. 
          Hence, here is importance of relationship that you want to keep it as exciting as it was in the beginning for happy life.     

Happy Relationship : Improve Quality Of Life

There is no denying that maintaining a relationship is a lot of work. Here are helpful tips for happy and healthy relationships.



COMMUNICATION
             While physical attraction may draw you close to a person, and their personality may make you adore them, communication is the key aspect of relationships that can not be ignored. Miscommunication between couples is one of the main reason that break-ups occurs. So you have to pay close attention on the aspect of conversation in order to ensure that your relationship will be happy and successful.
             Being a good listener is a necessity in a relationship. The more that your loved one understand that you are truly listening to them and appreciating the things that they tell you, the more open that they will be with you when discussing not so popular topics.  

'B' FACTORS OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP 

                             - Be Realistic
                             - Be Authentic
                             - Be Open
                             - Be Tactful
                             - Be Flexible
                             - Be Accountable
                             - Be Patient


 CONVERSATION
             There are many ways to improve your relationships. One of the ways is to start off your conversation in the right direction. In every relationship with anyone, you need communicate via conversation. And that would help you build the base of a good relationship. If you correct the way you approach conversation, you would have better relationships.
            If you want to be improving your relationship, you must speak from your heart. Speaking from your heart means speaking what is really true for you.

LISTENING

           Some people have the gift of grab. You might be one of those born with a natural ability to talk to people and get your point across. But true communication that builds up a relationship is not about how well you talk or how persuasive you can be. It is a give and take between two people. Surprisingly, it is a skill that sadly seems to be lacking in most peoples, because one of the most common reasons  for relationship breaking up or losing what i can its happy worthiness is an inability to communicate effectively.
            Communication is defined as the exchange of information between individuals. In most cases, peoples do not have a problem with talking. As long as we are not mute, talking is not problem for most of us. Communication in a relationship or marriage is not just about getting your point across, it is also understanding what the other person is saying to us and responding appropriately. You can not understand what your spouse is saying if you are not LISTENING.  

 FIVE SIMPLE THINGS TO FOLLOW
           1) It is important to keep a light mood in a relationship, be lighthearted.
           2) Try your best not to focus on your differences. The more differentiation between two individuals on a relationship, the more problems generally arises. For that reason, it is important to keep conflicts to a minimum.
            3) Keep things interesting.
4) Be sure to forgive each others when problems arises.
5) If living together, or seeing each other altogether too often, it is important to get some time away from your loved one.

ALPHABETICAL FEATURES OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

   - Do not try to change someone, expect perfection. Accept  the little flows that come with person. You accept theirs; they accept yours.
   - Bonding with another person generally does take time.
   - Communicate - talk, listen, share the good and the bad, ask questions, compliment instead of insult. Be open to the other person.
   - Be dependable.
   - Expect a little less, be realistic.
   - Be flexible, keep a little mystery i the relationship.
   - Peoples usually have some goals together over time. Develop some together. Working towards a common cause can help people grow together.
   - Take care of your own health and encourage others too.
   - Closeness with a person takes time to develop. And there is more to intimacy than physical contact. Intimacy can mean a hug during a tough time, a smile of encouragement in the face of adversity and compassion when you least feel like giving. Intimacy takes commitment and sharing.