Friday, June 3, 2011

Happy Relationship : Improve Quality Of Life


There is no denying that maintaining a relationship is a lot of work. Here are helpful tips for happy and healthy relationships.



COMMUNICATION
             While physical attraction may draw you close to a person, and their personality may make you adore them, communication is the key aspect of relationships that can not be ignored. Miscommunication between couples is one of the main reason that break-ups occurs. So you have to pay close attention on the aspect of conversation in order to ensure that your relationship will be happy and successful.
             Being a good listener is a necessity in a relationship. The more that your loved one understand that you are truly listening to them and appreciating the things that they tell you, the more open that they will be with you when discussing not so popular topics.  

'B' FACTORS OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP 
                             - Be Realistic
                             - Be Authentic
                             - Be Open
                             - Be Tactful
                             - Be Flexible
                             - Be Accountable
                             - Be Patient


 CONVERSATION
             There are many ways to improve your relationships. One of the ways is to start off your conversation in the right direction. In every relationship with anyone, you need communicate via conversation. And that would help you build the base of a good relationship. If you correct the way you approach conversation, you would have better relationships.
            If you want to be improving your relationship, you must speak from your heart. Speaking from your heart means speaking what is really true for you.

LISTENING
           Some people have the gift of grab. You might be one of those born with a natural ability to talk to people and get your point across. But true communication that builds up a relationship is not about how well you talk or how persuasive you can be. It is a give and take between two people. Surprisingly, it is a skill that sadly seems to be lacking in most peoples, because one of the most common reasons  for relationship breaking up or losing what i can its happy worthiness is an inability to communicate effectively.
            Communication is defined as the exchange of information between individuals. In most cases, peoples do not have a problem with talking. As long as we are not mute, talking is not problem for most of us. Communication in a relationship or marriage is not just about getting your point across, it is also understanding what the other person is saying to us and responding appropriately. You can not understand what your spouse is saying if you are not LISTENING.  



 FIVE SIMPLE THINGS TO FOLLOW
           1) It is important to keep a light mood in a relationship, be lighthearted.
           2) Try your best not to focus on your differences. The more differentiation between two individuals on a relationship, the more problems generally arises. For that reason, it is important to keep conflicts to a minimum.
            3) Keep things interesting.
4) Be sure to forgive each others when problems arises.
5) If living together, or seeing each other altogether too often, it is important to get some time away from your loved one.

ALPHABETICAL FEATURES OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
   - Do not try to change someone, expect perfection. Accept  the little flows that come with person. You accept theirs; they accept yours.
   - Bonding with another person generally does take time.
   - Communicate - talk, listen, share the good and the bad, ask questions, compliment instead of insult. Be open to the other person.
   - Be dependable.
   - Expect a little less, be realistic.
   - Be flexible, keep a little mystery i the relationship.
   - Peoples usually have some goals together over time. Develop some together. Working towards a common cause can help people grow together.
   - Take care of your own health and encourage others too.
   - Closeness with a person takes time to develop. And there is more to intimacy than physical contact. Intimacy can mean a hug during a tough time, a smile of encouragement in the face of adversity and compassion when you least feel like giving. Intimacy takes commitment and sharing.  





              


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